Good afternoon everyone.....it's been a very long time since my last posting! I'd like to share a Easter card I made for my mother. I recently had to place my mother in a nursing home...she lived with me for almost 16 years. Intellectually, I know it was time because she is currently in a wheelchair because walking has become too difficult for her. I would never be able to care for her and go to work or even sleep! She requires around the clock care now. Soooo, knowing all this, why do I still harbor guilt feelings??? It just feels strange at home, but I know, in time, I will adjust.
I made this Saturated Canary birthday card for my niece, a high school science teacher. She is also a breast cancer survivor....a very brave girl indeed. I'm very proud of her.
Thank you so much for visiting my blog and for your concern. It means so much to me. Love you all, Christina
Ciao Christina ...
ReplyDeleteI just read your post and I am very sorry for your mother ... We have lived your own experience with my grandmother. My uncle took care of her for many years. Then the situation 'worse and not' more able 'to keep it at home. Nursing homes are treated very well 'cause we are professionals. At home we are not able to treat people like that problems. Do not feel guilty but think that your mom 'treated very well ...
hugs Ada your italian friend
Totally stunning Christina. I'm so happy to see you post again! Both cards are awesome. Your Mom's Easter card is a picture of spring and your niece will treasure her birthday card. I'm sorry that you're feelig blue but time will heal. It's amazing that you cared for your Mom for 16 years. You have nothing to feel guiity about. God Bless you all!
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Hi Christina, your Mom is going to love the gorgeous Easter Card that you have made her. I know it must be hard to have your Mom in a nursing home. You will see that you did the right thing, but it takes the heart awhile to recover, especially when it comes to our Moms. The card that you made for your Niece is also wonderful! Take Care!
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Suzan
Hi Christina, give yourself a pat for being so dutiful. 16 years of care is quite amazing. You've done what you can... People always think that it's cruel to leave your old folks in a home but actually sometimes that's the best place for them. And it doesn't come cheap. Your mum is very blessed. There are many in my country who are juz abandoned by their children. TFS glad to see your lovely cards again.
ReplyDeleteGorgeous cards..loz
ReplyDeleteSilly girl, don't you know your own link? Lol! Sounds like something I would do! And I'm glad you redirected us because these cards are gorgeous! I love the yellow...such a warm, glorious color! Your mom will love it...and you're a fabulous daughter for realizing that her care was beyond what you could give. Big hugs to you my friend!
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Hello Dear Christina, you did an outstanding job on those 2 cards. I have a coup de coeur for Tilda and the lovely background. So cheerful, so happy, wonderful colors. Your niece will love her birthday card, very lovely image on top, pretty inside! Hugs.
ReplyDeleteYour cards are just perfect Christina!!! : )
ReplyDeleteOh Sweet Christina! These are 2 very GORGEOUS cards!!! Your Mom will absolutely LOVE her Easter card, it makes me feel happy just looking at it! What a most BEAUTIFUL scenery you've done with the images .. you ALWAYS do GORGEOUS scenes!!! Please don't be hard on yourself my dear .. you took such wonderful care of your Mom. As for your birthday card for your neice .. oh my gosh, she will LOVE this!!! I LOVE SC images, and you've coloured both of them so STUNNINGLY!!! Yes, she IS a brave girl indeed, with a whole life of wonderfulness ahead of her!! :)
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Elise
Wonderful cards Christina, I love the Tilda scene so pretty
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Both are adorable cards. Try not to feel too guilty, you did your best for your mumfor 16 years! Xx
ReplyDeleteYour easter card is amazing Christina!!! Love the combination of this stamps.
ReplyDeleteYour other cards are beautiful too!!
greets,
Neline
Gorgeous cards! I am sure your mother and niece will treasure their cards. I am sorry to hear about your mother. Don't feel guilty I am sure your mother is grateful for the wonderful care you have given her. Have a good week.
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Ah, was wondering where you were at, Christina, since it has been a while since your last posting. You have a life to live also, and, wow, 16 years as it was - kudos to you, m'dear! These are awesome cards and we can all use a bit of sunshine right now - Happy Spring !!
ReplyDeleteWhat a gorgeous cards.
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Oh sweetie...I'm so sorry for what you're going through right now. It's just a thing with us women...we tend to feel guilty for things we shouldn't feel guilty about. I'm sending you BIG hugs!! She will adore your Easter card!! It's so beautiful!! I LOVE the way the warm sunshine just glows! Stunning!! And the birthday card you made for your niece? WOW!! Love it too! You take good care of yourself and remember that you did the right thing for your mom. :)
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I did miss you! Your cards are beautiful! I'm sure your mother understand and she will be delighted with her Easter card. Hugs, Brigitte
ReplyDeletewow.. simply beautiful cards.
ReplyDeletei am also sending you a big big hug sweetie. I am so sorry for how you are feeling. It is getting better soon.
There is no reason you need to feel guilty!
love you much
Claudi
Fabulous cards Christina, I always love your beautiful colouring and style, pretty as a picture birth of them.
ReplyDeleteWe are our own worst enemies with guilt trips and as you say you will adjust but I know that will take its time. Your Mum is in the best possible place and I'm sending you a great big hug. X
Your feelings are natural and you are a loving daughter, you did the right thing although I am sure you miss her presence in your home. May God Ease your pain.
ReplyDeleteIn regards to your gorgeous cards, I am sure the yellow Easter card will bring joy to your mom! The other one is so perfect for your niece, God Bless her!
I wish you a happy day!
Hugs Kelly
Christina your cards are so pretty. Your Mom and niece will appreciate the love you put into them. You cannot feel guilty for caring so much for your Mom. You did what is best for her. We always want to keep our loved ones close by, but that is not always what is best for them. Your cannot feel guilty for doing what is best for them. :) Nancee
ReplyDeleteHi Christina!! I love your cards as always!! That Magnolia card is absolutely stunning!!! I love how you have created the scene! You have been a good daughter now it is time to somebody else take care of your mum. Don't feel guilty there is absolutely no reason for that!!!
ReplyDeleteWow these cards are stunning.
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Both cards are wonderful Christina --- it takes a while to get over the guilt but get over it you will. As you know, I have been through your experience. One day at a time kid and keep up with your art journal - no need for words unless you want to use them. You have such a wonderful following with your cards and now a whole new world in mixed media.
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Sandy
Wow Christina, everytime I come visit your blog, I never get any disappointments. You always have wonderful projects to share and same as usual, these cards are gorgeous and they all made with beautiful details :o)
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Cabio
Both are gorgeous, adorable images and amazing colouring.
ReplyDeleteOooo wow! These are so gorgeous!! Sorry you have to go through everything with your mom. I can't even begin to imagine. Sounds like you are very positive though and that's good. I hope you enjoy your Easter! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteWow this is beautiful, love all of these images and your colouring hun love it big huggies June xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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